Dzifa Sweetness, a sex coach on e.TV Ghana’s ‘IN BED WITH ADWEN’ show, has asked sexual partners to give reverence to the act of sex.
According to her, the way some men request sex from their women is so appalling. ‘’A man can just say to a woman lift your dress. Even if it is a quickie it should still be done appropriately,’’ she stated.
She also believes that physical appearance on both sides, play a very important role in the overall sexual experience because a smelly man or an unkempt lady will be a turn off for most people.
‘’ You can’t just come to me with a bushy and unkempt penis and expect me to have sex with you,’’ she said.
‘’It is not only penetration that is sex. It is a sweet experience for both men and women. Also sex between couples should be consensual because forcing your partner is not good sex.’’ she reiterated.
She advised men to approach sex with the appropriate conversation to prime the woman and make her wet.
’’You won’t insult me in the morning and expect to have sex with me at night so it means you have to force me and that is certainly not good sex,’’ she added.
According to her some women during sex will be thinking about something they asked for and the man did not do.
‘’And some of the women too, while a man is doing his best to please them sexually they will now be thinking about a shoe she requested for and he didn’t buy. These actions are disrespectful to sex’’ she noted.
Finally, she advised men to prepare the grounds before sex by engaging in moan worthy foreplay. She however advised women to desist from exaggerated fake moans, especially when they live in compound houses.
By: Bridget Mensah
